We, in life come across people having different characteristics. The personality that I admire the most is that one which we hate to the ultimate limit. Because these are the people with their distinctive features, always give us something to talk about. I think there is no occasion in which they can’t be included. We hate them & just hate them and no other activity we associate with them. In other terms, we think they are born to be hated. I don’t know the person whom we hate ever identifies this or even when he knows gives minuscule importance. I think he might be thinking that if people get satisfaction hating him then he is comfortable with this phenomenon. Since, there is at least one quality in him that makes people feel happy. Even if he does something great that needs to be applauded, we just turn this achievement into a great opportunity for us to once again hate him. And this time with much more passion and zeal so that his achievement gets negated. We just think that he can never do a thing correctly and the best we can do for him is to hate. I don’t know what precisely is the element in him that forces us to do so.
In college days, I used to think that it is very hard to grade people into categories. Since, human are very complex and infinite things aggregate to form them.But this perception didn’t last long. Now, I am able to figure out people into three categories. Manageable- it is the fist category and this belongs to personalities which doesn’t attract me. But they are people with whom I can carry out day to day activities with slight issues. These people are fairly self centric in their ideas, constantly stuck up with their own observations and perceptions. They sometimes make me feel that they don’t belong to this category, but in some other instance they exactly do things they should be doing to be in this group.
Good- Just bunch of people who know what they are and do things what they must be doing. They always try that no actions of theirs harm anyone. They care about others feelings etc.
Tremendous- The category I like the most is this. If I have to divide people in to above 3 categories then 40% may fall into Manageable, 58%-may fall into Good and 2% - may fall in to this category. This shows that how much importance these people carry. They do things differently that no one else can do. They are trendsetters. They enjoy doing things with their own uniqueness. They are part of most of the chatting going around whether in their flavor or against them. One thing is their, one gets fame either doing great things or doing most insignificant things differently. This category people accomplish things using one of the above methods. They are admired by most of us in any way that doesn’t matter, even if we hate. They never change their way implementing things, whether it be conducting meetings or motivating others. They have the feeling that they are making difference in every field and also make everyone feel same. If not by actions then with words and gestures. They just want to be recognized and applauded and promoted. They see no one close to them. They want everyone to behave like them so that it may help everyone to be better. They want to make things happen, if not by actions then with things that are not remotely connected to it. They think that they have the best logic of understanding things and helping others. They don’t have any quality that GOD hasn’t blessed them.
